No Melee Eliminations was originally added to curb "The Blitz" issues. Two of our members were playing a Campaign Eckmuhl playtest game and one of them wiped out an entire brigade of Austrians in one turn using the dreaded "ZOC Kills." I highly suggest you turn that rule ON for your games.
Others you have turned ON or OFF are entirely up to you but many of us are now preferring to leave the "VPs for Leader Casualties" rule OFF because the values have been increased a lot and are unhistorical. Its not become more of a "Leader-kill-fest" than a game of "Which army wins the day."
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Generalfeldmarschall Wilhelm Prinz Peters von Dennewitz
3. Husaren-Regiment, Reserve-Kavallerie, Preußischen Armee-Korps
Honarary CO of Garde-Ulanen Regiment, Garde-Grenadier Kavallerie
NWC Founding Member, former WDS Scenario Designer
For Club Games: I prefer the Single Phase mode of play. I prefer to play with the following options
OFF:
MDF, VP4LC, NRO, MTD, CMR, PR, MIM, NDM, OMR (ver 4.06)